BAWWWWK!

by Kelly in Inspiration 2

What Inspires: Chicken Scratch

I walked away from a post-holidays “debate” with my sis-in-law, Joanne,  with chicken scratch on my mind.

Joanne, a Special-Ed teacher,  maintains that learning cursive isn’t important anymore, and furthermore, that future generations may not write at all. Not to say they won’t comunicate. They may well communicate faster, more easily,  and on more advanced levels. Instead of writing, they’ll dictate and a machine will respond accordingly and/or transcribe if needed;  non-verbal folks will type and the machine will speak. Wha-Lah: Communication!

This might well be the way of the future. But…but…but… BAWWWWWWK!

Recent arguments about how practicing and learning writing is as important t0 brain development as going through the “crawling stage” and learning to skip aside, I can’t stop thinking about what will be lost if people stop writing?

I keep a box of cards and letters; my mother has one; my grandfather did, too.  (I type, “did” because my grandmother burned my grandfather’s, along with his family photos, shortly after his funeral (will we ever know why???)

When my grandmother died, I found hers, too. I didn’t burn it; I was embarrassed by it, though, and delighted and saddened and mortified to discover “brilliant” Mini-me thought “Boston” was spelled “Boaston” and  my teacher, Mr. Tweet, may well have had legitimate cause for giving me a C- in 5th grade penmanship (which crushed me and kept me from making the Honor Roll)

I was touched and thrilled  to discover my grandmother kept those cards and letters–if for no other reason that that I get to read them, touch them, smell them. . . . An exchange of molecules takes place during the process of “penning a note” which adds a different twist to the term “give something of yourself.” During the process of writing the note we transfer piece of ourselves to the paper.  Unlike carbon dating, human residue on hand-written card, notes, letter—recipes—don’t lessen by halves,  it becomes more precious.  (Any historic, cultural, kitsch value of the card is another discussion entirely.)

This holiday season, just as I have other holidays, I pulled out my raggedy recipe accordion folder and riffled through recipes. One Christmas eons ago (when my mother had more time and imagination than funding) she created a recipe file for my grandmother and herself. She typed “favorite” recipes on index cards and decorated them with doodles and comments. I relish those recipe cards. They whisk me back to when Mom was younger, energetic, and willing to spend the time on handmade gifts. As cheesy as many of them are, I love looking at them. They always make me smile and remember, as does “Aunt Margie’s Sheet Cake,” Grandma Lee’s “Noodle Koogle” and my grandmother’s “Never-fail Pie Crust.” (And dang if those pre low-fat, low-butter, low-calorie, low-sugar, high-nutrition recipes aren’t dang tasty!)

This holiday season, I received a piddly pile of cards—which I saved to savor after the rush and beyond as they will be duly read, then stored in my memory box. The bulk of my holiday greetings and post-holiday thank you notes arrived via email. And though I read and enjoyed them, I didn’t—even when I could have—print them out to save. I may save an e-mail note or card in Outlook, I rarely print one with the purpose of saving it. Those I do print rest in a wicker basket which bears a striking resemblance to the recycle basket.  Even in my wildest imaginings, I can not make myself believe a time will come when scent, skin, bone, tears, smudges, molecules can travel through the Internet, to the satellite and fiber optic cable, squish out the printer. (At least old-fashioned “dittos” smelled good–Oooh! Ooohh! I’ll run  off the copies for you, Mrs. Hsang…can I? Please, oh pretty please?????)

In a lecture on non-fiction at Vermont College of Fine Art last year, Diane Stanley shared how she researched her books.c She shared that judging from the volume, frequency, and immediacy of correspondence, communication in London during Charles Dickens time was almost as fast as today. As a result, volumes of his thoughts, ideas, musings, menus, gripes—in his own words—are read, enjoyed, studied, perused, evaluated, analyzed, synthesized, idolized, etc. etc. by scholars today.  With e-mail notes, sms, cards, tweets, etc. stand the same test?

AAMOF, 404!

Scribble on…BAWWWWWWK!

Our housekeeper, Rusnati's, recipe book--a combination of chicken scratch & magazine finds pasted onto the pages of an outdated manual --now that's recycling!

Welcome 2012!

by Kelly in Inspiration 5

What Inspires: A Clean Slate
Happy 2012 to us all.

Our new calendars are open and flipped to bright, new, blank pages. Along with all those other resolutions, let’s save space for creative moments, deep jolly belly rolls,  and personal fulfillment!

For my part, I’ll keep seeking tidbits that inspire me and promise to share them here in hopes they’ll inspire you, too.

As the song goes: “It’s a new dawn/It’s a new day…” add to that It’s a new year!

 

 

Great niece, Adelaide Smith, a bright shining new mind--what could be more inspiriing?

Community Begins With Two

by Kelly in Inspiration 9

What Inspires: Community

We do most of the really hard work—to quote George Baily in one of my favorite Christmas movies, It’s A Wonderful Life—“most of the living and dying around here” alone.

Nothing wrong with Alone.  Alone is when I do most of my deep thinking. Alone is when I do my deep cleaning, straightening, organizing. Alone is when I write down most of those brilliant ideas.

Alone is when I falter, too.

That’s when Community makes the difference.  As  a brand-new mother in a brand-new town, I was completely lost and helpless until a neighbor, Sally, crossed the street and pulled me by the hand into hers.

With my children grown, I consider myself more of a writer than mother, so that’s the community I’m thinking of now.  When I was first beginning my writing career, I belonged to a writing Community of 2:  Ronnie Davidson and me, sitting side-by-side in her attic office from 8:30 to 11:00 am Monday through Friday, her at the computer keyboard clicking away, me with a legal pad on my lap, scribbling. However small, without my Writing Community, I may well have dropped the notion of becoming a professional writer.

Mid-way through my writing career, my Community grew to include critique groups, writing organizations, such as OWFI, SCBWI, Authors’ Guild, etc. My Writing Community grew so large that its tentacles spread into almost all other areas of my life.

Then just as George’s younger brother Harry, and Sam Wainwright and even brassy Violet tried to, I left my Community. I didn’t realize what I was leaving until I faltered again…and again and didn’t have my Community–  colleagues/friends/critique buds/teachers– to which I could turn.

  • Community are those folks who talk you off the ledge when you’re feeling like chucking it all…
  • Community keeps you honest and grounded when you’re on top, by remembering you when—and never letting you forget.
  • Community keeps you going when you hit bottom, by reminding you why you’re trying to do something “so dog gone hard in the first place” and how far you’ve come.
  • When you need advice, commiseration, support, love, Community is the place to go, because there’s sure to be someone there who has either “been there, done that” or knows someone who knows someone who might, or might not, have been.

Clarence the apprentice Angel took that icy plunge on Christmas Eve just so he’d have a chance to remind George of his Community and his role in it.

I didn’t need a Clarence to remind me; I have a Marilyn, my sister-in-law who’s battling breast cancer [for more click back on Helping Hearts blog posting]. Like George, Marilyn’s Community is huge, and rich and diverse. And just as everyone in Bedford Falls rushed over when they heard the call that “George Baily” needed help, Marilyn’s Community is rallying around her. They arrive with treats, with notes, with rides, with offers of help and support of all kinds. Soon after I arrived to support Marilyn post-surgery, she said to me, “I’m learning how to let people help. You have to keep that in mind, too. People want to help and it’s important to let them.”

We talk so much about giving–especially at this time of year. We don’t spend so much time considering receiving. We don’t want to be receivers (except on the ball field). We don’t want to be in the position of needing help. But that’s Community! In giving we receive; in receiving we give.

Community! A gift we  give and receive


 FYI: I Googled quotes to make sure I correctly remembered the line from “It’s A Wonderful Life.” In the process, I came across this article by Joe Carter, comparing Frank Capra and Ayn Rand. I found it worth the read. You might, too!  The Fountain Head of Bedford Falls

Want the full movie quote?

George is talking to Old Man Baily, justifying the existence of the Savings and Loan, when he says: “Well, this riffraff you’re talking about does most of the living and dying around here. Is it too much to ask for them to do it in two decent rooms and a bath?” – For more memorable lines from the movie visit Eudanomics: My Pursuit of Happiness blog 

Community: Starts With Two…

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